We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.

-Eleanor Roosevelt


I think I've learned more about myself these past couple of months than I have my entire life. It's true what they say that it's at the times when you're alone and forced to reflect on yourself that you learn the most. Everyday I'm learning a little more about myself, what I want out of life, and who I am supposed to become. I'm learning everyday that happiness isn't just about who you're with or what others perceive you to be but it's who you believe you are and how you shape your own life to be. At a very young age I've been such a people pleaser. I've always done things because I wanted to make my parents or family proud. I've done things because I wanted to be the best couple, student, or worker. But now I know I'll never be happy trying to make others happy I need to do things for me. Life is too short to be living it on other people's dreams and expectations. I have my own dreams and my own expectations. I want to be successful so I can live a good life and I can help others fight for their rights and advocate for equality and justice. These are my dreams and this is my future.

I really do believe everything in life happens for a reason. The good, the bad, the laughter and the tears they are a part of a bigger picture. Everything I have experienced, every tragedy, every blessing, every friend, and every foe are part of my life for a purpose and it is my job to recognize that reason. It is my job to learn, listen, and grow from every experience. There are no accidents in life and there is no obstacle too difficult to overcome.